Thursday, December 18th, 2008 at
12:57 pm
For some people, Christmas is a time of dread and pain. They usually remember the good time, maybe last year or maybe 20 years ago. I think the memory of those good times make it even harder. People usually suggest to them to go volunteer for a soup kitchen on Christmas day or something like that. That’s not a bad idea except, for many people that are alone, their alone because they don’t relate to people very well. They may be very shy. It is likely that the loneliness leaves them with the feeling that others don’t want to be around them. That makes volunteerism difficult for many. If they can get past that, doing something productive, giving to others really can help one feel less alone or at least take the bit out of it. Giving to others can give someone a reason for being, it can bring a peace. Again, many people that are alone for Christmas are alone the rest of the time too, Christmas just makes it extremely difficult. I’ve witnessed some extreme Christmas pain by some people during the Christmas season, especially on Christmas day.
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